There is one thing worst than not getting what we want: not getting what we want when we could have gotten it. So many people do not understand how the universe works according to Torah, including those who learn it. If they did, they would understand how much more control they have over their lives and what they could accomplish. For, even though it seems as if we live in God's shadow, the truth is, He acts as if He is ours. And that changes everything. EVERYTHING.